Hi , bacha's how's u?It seems only the other day u two nuzzled at my breasts , hugged me hard and held onto my fingers when I left u at the school gate, flashed me happy glances when u collected the awards on stage in college and wept heartbrokenly when u left me to be with ur respective husbands to far off lands to live your own life. Sigh! In a cliche, how time flies.

But  like the proverbial Mother bird I have to let you spread your wings and fly, nay soar....A word of warning though as u soar do not forget to look down and see the ground below ,for the further u rise, the higher u climb, remember if u crash, (God forbid) the  pain and hurt will be intensified. But I am sure my girls are properly grounded and will never forget the values that I have taught them. Of course u never liked it much if I preached as u called it and heart to heart as I called it!  I am sure u used to switch off.... disconnect...when I started!  But now in ur homes u might be remembering 'dear moms lectures'. When u become moms urselves u will need all these lectures too, to bond with ur children. Yes, u have guesed it ,Mom is about to lecture again.!One last time bachas before it is too late.

Be kind and compasionate , of course u are, remember the strays and the pups in the area were looked after by u two but do continue the good work in other little ways..
Look after the needs of ur inlaws..take them for a walk or sit and just talk to her even though u r rushed for time.Or if they r not with u call  up once in a while.Respest them. Remember it is their son u love.
Just because u r earning in dollars dont be proud or a show off.. Sonu ,u have a habit of showing off, don't be a bore.
Always remember u r an indian even though compared to india, ur quality of life is much better thanks to better management and infrastructure. At the same time do not put down the country ,(Som u should control ur tongue) that is providing u with ur bread and butter and cheese and wine and beer...
Also, do not fight with each other, u used to when u were young and kids but now there is no need to ,of course sisters do fight but do not make it serious .No hurting each other  so bad that u hurt inside.Sisters are special and bonded for life.
 Make dad proud of u as always . I still remember how u, Sonu rushed to him with ur report card and waited for that pat on the back. It used to make ur day.
And ur children ...no first u have them....
And lastly do not forget my gifts on mother's day  and birthday!!!!! Love u da always and forever.My children the bestest! My lifetime achievement.


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